When we understand that we are all equal in essence and are interconnected, we generate the awareness that helping others also helps ourselves. The final release occurs to recognize the divine and His love for us existence. Who can have more capacity for love which God the Creator of all existence of which supports and maintains the balance. Who knows better than God what you need and is good for you. Then it is easy to dissolve your will in the divine will and say take me, your will be done through me, and renouncing selfishness and the fruit of our actions.